menopause wellness – Balance & Bloom 50+

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) & Why I Chose to Start

After struggling with menopause symptoms, the author turned to hormone replacement therapy (HRT) for support. Working with a menopause specialist, she developed a personalized plan including progesterone and estrogen to address sleep, mood, and energy issues. She emphasizes that HRT can complement natural wellness and encourages others to consider it.

by Lori Wesmiller, MS – Balance & Bloom 50+

Organizing medication for hormone therapy management at home.

I’m all about tuning in to what your body needs in each season of life—and after trying so many natural strategies to manage my menopause symptoms, I reached a point where I felt like I needed more support.

I wasn’t sleeping well. My motivation had dipped. My joints were achy, and I had this nagging sense that I was pushing through each day, rather than living it.

Lori wrapped in a yellow blanket, holding a tissue to her eye, expressing emotion.

Thankfully, my OB-GYN is a menopause specialist, and she really listened. We reviewed my symptoms, medical history, and lab results together. From there, she created a customized HRT plan tailored to my body’s needs and sensitivities.

We decided to begin with one 200mg progesterone capsule taken in the evening. Even though I had a hysterectomy back in 2012 and technically don’t need progesterone to protect the uterus, my doctor included it for other benefits. Specifically, it supports better sleep, eases anxiety, and helps stabilize mood swings.

Micronised progesterone soft gelatin capsules (200 mg) used in hormone replacement therapy.

After two weeks on progesterone alone, I started using a 0.0375mg estrogen patch, which I’ll change twice a week. This low-dose patch helps support energy, cognitive clarity, temperature regulation, and joint comfort, among other things.

Estradiol Transdermal Patch — Estradiol 0.0375mg Estrogen Transdermal Patch for HRT

This wasn’t an overnight decision—it was thoughtful, researched, and guided by a specialist. And I want other women to know: exploring HRT doesn’t mean you’re “giving up” on natural wellness. For many of us, it’s part of the picture of balanced, thriving health.

Disclaimer: Always consult your healthcare provider before starting any hormone therapy regimen—whether medicinal or natural. HRT is not one-size-fits-all. A trained provider can help you make the most informed and safe choice based on your unique health history and symptoms.

I’ll be keeping you updated on how this HRT journey unfolds, both here and over on my socials. If you have any questions about my path so far or are just curious about what it’s really like to start HRT, I’m always happy to share more. You’re not alone in this season—we’re blooming through it together.

Are you taking HRT for perimenopause or menopause symptoms? If so, what has your experience been?

Happy blooming beauties!

10 Self-Care Tips Every Woman Needs During Menopause

By Lori Wesmiller, MS – Balance & Bloom 50+

A calming self-care setup featuring essential oils, plants, and soothing candles, perfect for promoting relaxation during menopause.

Menopause isn’t just about hot flashes and hormone shifts—it’s a major life transition that impacts your body, mind, emotions, and identity. It can feel like everything is changing… because it is. And that’s why self-care during this time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential.

Here are 10 gentle, powerful ways to care for yourself during menopause and post-menopause so you can not just survive, but truly thrive.

1. Prioritize Sleep Like It’s Sacred

Woman peacefully sleeping in bed, representing the importance of rest and sleep during menopause

Sleep becomes trickier during menopause (hello night sweats and 3am anxiety), but it’s foundational for everything—your mood, metabolism, and mental clarity.

Tip: Create a calming wind-down ritual: no screens, cool room, magnesium or herbal tea, and consistent sleep/wake times.

2. Move Daily—Even If It’s Just 10 Minutes

You don’t need hour-long workouts to feel good. Gentle, consistent movement improves mood, supports hormone balance, and reduces joint pain.

Try: Walking, strength training, yoga, or even dancing in your kitchen.

3. Eat for Energy and Hormone Balance

A colorful assortment of wholesome foods, including proteins, fruits, and vegetables, emphasizing the importance of nutrition for energy and hormone balance during menopause.

What you eat matters more than ever. Focus on whole foods that reduce inflammation and support digestion.

Focus on:

• Protein at every meal

• Fiber-rich veggies

• Healthy fats like olive oil, nuts, and seeds

• Plenty of hydration

4. Track Your Symptoms

A smartphone displaying a symptom tracking app, highlighting the importance of monitoring menopause-related changes.

Noticing patterns in your sleep, mood, digestion, and energy can help you understand what your body needs.

Bonus: Bring your notes to doctor appointments—it’s empowering to advocate for yourself.

5. Practice Saying ‘No’ Without Guilt

Empowering self-care during menopause: embrace your strength and say ‘no’ without guilt.

Midlife is the perfect time to release people-pleasing. Protect your energy. You don’t need to explain or over-apologize.

Reminder: “No” is a complete sentence.

6. Nourish Your Gut

A bowl of yogurt topped with berries and mint, highlighting the importance of gut health during menopause.

Gut health is linked to mood, immunity, and hormone detox. Menopause can slow digestion, so extra care here goes a long way.

Include:

• Probiotic foods (sauerkraut, yogurt, kefir)

• Prebiotic fibers (onions, garlic, asparagus)

• Hydration + gentle movement

7. Check in With Your Emotional Wellness

A cozy workspace with a notebook filled with handwritten notes, a cup of tea, and pens, perfect for reflection and emotional wellness during menopause.

Mood swings, irritability, or sadness are common—but they’re not permanent. Make space for how you feel and don’t hesitate to seek help.

Support Options: Therapy, journaling, breathwork, or community connection

8. Invest in Comfortable Clothing (and Bedding!)

This sounds simple, but it’s life-changing. Soft, breathable fabrics can reduce irritation and support restful sleep.

Favorites: Cotton or bamboo sheets, wireless bras, and flowy layers for temperature shifts.

9. Find Joy Every Day—Big or Small

Laughter, creativity, music, gardening, reading, a good cup of tea—these things matter. Joy isn’t a luxury, it’s fuel.

Try: Scheduling joy into your day just like an appointment.

10. Remind Yourself: You Are Not Broken

Menopause is a natural evolution, not a failure of your body. You are wise, powerful, and still blooming.

Affirmation: “I honor this season and care for myself with love.”

Take care of yourself Blooming Beauties 🌺!

With love,

Lori

Embracing Menopause: A Guide to Thriving Through Life’s Changes

By Lori Wesmiller, Balance & Bloom 50+

A diverse group of women celebrating the strength and beauty of aging together.

Let’s be honest—perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause are not just phases to “get through.” These transitions are powerful seasons of life. How we care for our bodies during them matters more than ever. If you’ve felt like your body is shifting beneath your feet—emotionally, physically, even spiritually—you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not powerless.

In fact, this is the perfect time to reconnect with your body in a whole new way.

🌙 Why It Matters

Hormonal changes during these stages impact everything: sleep, digestion, mood, memory, weight, skin, and even our sense of self. According to the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), as estrogen and progesterone fluctuate and decline, they influence:

Bone density and muscle mass
Mental clarity and mood
Skin elasticity and hydration
Gut and heart health
Energy levels and metabolism

If you feel like your body is no longer behaving the way it used to—there’s a reason for that. These shifts aren’t your fault, and they’re not a failure. They’re your body’s way of recalibrating, and they deserve attention and care.

⚡ How Perimenopause, Menopause & Post-Menopause Can Feel

You may experience a mix of physical and emotional symptoms, including:

Brain fog, forgetfulness, or trouble concentrating
Hot flashes, night sweats, and disrupted sleep
Digestive changes like bloating or constipation
Unexplained weight gain, especially around the midsection
Mood swings, anxiety, or irritability
Dry skin, thinning hair, or changes in body composition
Fatigue, even after rest

Perimenopause typically begins in your 40s and can last several years before your final period. Menopause is confirmed after 12 months without a period, and post-menopause continues for the rest of your life. Cleveland Clinic notes that while symptoms vary greatly, support and intentional care can dramatically improve quality of life.

🌱 Tips for Feeling Better in Your Body (and Mind)

1. Eat to Nourish, Not Restrict

Focus on foods that stabilize blood sugar and reduce inflammation:

Protein-rich meals (20–30g per meal) to preserve muscle
High-fiber foods (vegetables, chia seeds, lentils, flax) to support digestion and estrogen clearance
Omega-3 fats from fish, walnuts, and flax for mood and joint support
Anti-inflammatory spices like turmeric and ginger

More ideas: Precision Nutrition’s Guide to Menopause & Nutrition

2. Move with Purpose and Pleasure

Exercise helps ease anxiety, boost mood, and maintain bone and muscle strength. Harvard Health recommends:

Strength training 2–3x a week
Walking, swimming, or dancing for heart health
Yoga or Pilates for balance, flexibility, and pelvic health

Even 15 minutes a day makes a difference—and finding movement you enjoy is key to consistency.

3. Support Your Sleep Like a Ritual

Sleep disruptions are common, but they’re not something to ignore. Try:

Keeping your room cool and dark (night sweats are real!)
Using magnesium or melatonin with your doctor’s okay
Avoiding screens 1 hour before bed
Creating a calming wind-down routine

More tips here from the National Institute on Aging.

4. Balance Stress Hormones (Especially Cortisol)

Perimenopause makes your body more sensitive to stress. Chronic cortisol can worsen belly fat, sleep problems, and even hot flashes. Combat this by:

Taking breaks throughout your day to breathe
Journaling or meditating for 5–10 minutes
Practicing saying “no” and setting boundaries
Spending time in nature or doing something just for you

5. Care for Your Gut = Care for Your Hormones

Your gut helps clear excess estrogen and regulates mood via the gut-brain axis. A happy gut supports a balanced mind.

Add fermented foods like sauerkraut, kimchi, kefir (or non-dairy alternatives)
Eat a variety of plant-based fibers
Consider a probiotic supplement if needed

More on this from Dr. Mary Claire Haver and the Galveston Diet

6. Know When to Seek Support

If your symptoms are affecting your daily life, don’t tough it out alone. You may benefit from:

Speaking to a menopause-informed doctor
Exploring hormone therapy (HRT), non-hormonal options, or supplements
Joining a support group or community of women going through the same thing
Reading empowering resources like The Menopause Manifesto by Dr. Jen Gunter

✨ You’re Not Just Surviving—You’re Blooming

Aging isn’t about shrinking or fading away. It’s about stepping into your full wisdom, power, and energy—with care, compassion, and strength. These years can be some of the most connected and vibrant of your life—especially when you support your body in all the ways it asks for.

Let’s shift the narrative. This isn’t about fighting aging—it’s about embracing you.