Menopause Guide: Navigating Changes with Confidence

By Lori Wesmiller | Balance & Bloom 50+

Lori Wesmiller, midlife therapist, thriving in menopause

Let’s take a moment to demystify something half the population will go through, yet many women feel unprepared for: menopause.

Whether you’re feeling off lately, starting to track irregular cycles, or deep in hot flash territory—this post is for you. Menopause is a powerful and natural transition, not a disease or weakness. And the more we understand it, the more we can support our bodies with compassion, confidence, and care.


🌸 What Is Menopause?

Menopause is the biological process that marks the end of your menstrual cycles. It’s officially diagnosed after 12 consecutive months without a period, typically occurring between the ages of 45 and 55.

But it doesn’t happen overnight—there’s a build-up stage known as perimenopause, which can begin years earlier and bring its own set of symptoms.


👩‍🦳 Who Does It Affect?

  • All women assigned female at birth who reach midlife
  • Typically begins between ages 45–55, but can happen earlier or later
  • Early menopause may be triggered by:
    • Surgery (hysterectomy or oophorectomy)
    • Cancer treatments (chemo/radiation)
    • Genetics or autoimmune conditions

And let’s be clear: menopause affects more than just your period. It can impact your entire body and emotional well-being.


🩺 What Are the Symptoms?

According to the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), declining estrogen and hormone shifts can cause a wide range of symptoms, including:

Physical Symptoms:

  • Hot flashes and night sweats
  • Irregular or missed periods
  • Vaginal dryness or discomfort
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Weight gain, especially around the midsection
  • Thinning hair or dry skin
  • Digestive changes (bloating, constipation)

Mental & Emotional Symptoms:

  • Mood swings, irritability
  • Anxiety or depression
  • Brain fog and forgetfulness
  • Low libido
  • Fatigue and lack of motivation

Every woman’s experience is unique—some have few symptoms, while others feel like they’re living in someone else’s body.


🌿 Natural Remedies & Lifestyle Support

Before jumping to medications, many women explore natural approaches to ease their symptoms. These won’t “cure” menopause (it’s a natural stage!), but they can support hormone balance and overall wellness.

✅ Diet & Nutrition

  • Protein supports lean muscle and energy
  • Fiber aids digestion and estrogen detox
  • Healthy fats (avocados, nuts, olive oil) support hormone production
  • Limit sugar, caffeine, and alcohol to reduce inflammation and sleep issues
  • Stay hydrated!

✅ Movement

  • Strength training helps with bone density and metabolism
  • Walking or light cardio improves mood and cardiovascular health
  • Yoga or stretching eases stress and supports pelvic floor health

✅ Sleep & Stress

  • Create a calming bedtime routine
  • Try magnesium, chamomile, or lavender for sleep support
  • Practice mindfulness, journaling, or deep breathing daily

✅ Herbal Support (check with your doctor first):

  • Black cohosh (hot flash support)
  • Maca root (energy & libido)
  • Ashwagandha (stress & cortisol support)
  • Evening primrose oil (hormonal balance)

Check out more natural tips in the Precision Nutrition Menopause Guide.


💊 Medical Interventions That Can Help

If symptoms are severely affecting your quality of life, there is no shame in seeking medical support. Every woman deserves to feel good.

Options Include:

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)

  • Replaces estrogen and/or progesterone
  • Can relieve hot flashes, sleep issues, vaginal dryness, and mood shifts
  • Best when started under age 60 or within 10 years of menopause
  • Discuss risks/benefits with a menopause-informed doctor
    (More from Mayo Clinic)

Non-Hormonal Medications

  • SSRIs (for mood and hot flashes)
  • Vaginal estrogen creams or moisturizers
  • Sleep aids (as needed)

Pelvic Floor Therapy

  • For urinary issues or intimacy discomfort

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone, and You’re Not Broken

Menopause is not an ending—it’s an evolution. It’s a time to tune in, care deeply for yourself, and reconnect with your strength. Whether you choose natural approaches, medical help, or a mix of both—you are in charge of your wellness journey.

Here at Balance & Bloom 50+, I’m walking this path right alongside you. Together, we can thrive through this transition with grace, grit, and maybe even a little sparkle. ✨


📥 Want support every step of the way?

Packed with daily tips to help you feel better naturally.


🧠 Further Reading:

Unknown's avatar

Author: Lori Wesmiller, MS

🌸 Hi, I’m Lori Wesmiller, MS — mental health therapist, wellness advocate, and founder of Balance & Bloom 50+. I created this space for women navigating perimenopause, menopause, and midlife transitions who are craving clarity, calm, and real support for the emotional and physical shifts that come with this season. In my 50s, I’ve faced the fog — anxiety, mood swings, hormone chaos, sleep struggles, and digestive issues (gluten-free for life!). But I’ve also discovered that midlife isn’t the end of the story — it’s a powerful new chapter when you have the right tools and support. With a background in therapy and a personal journey through menopause, I’ve made it my mission to help women understand what’s happening in their brains and bodies — and to feel less alone in the process. 💚 What You’ll Find at Balance & Bloom 50+ This blog is a therapist-backed, judgment-free space where you’ll find: • Insight into how hormones affect mood, anxiety, and mental clarity • Support for calming your nervous system and finding emotional balance • Honest conversations about midlife identity, self-worth, and relationships • Gentle encouragement to prioritize your well-being without guilt • Tools to help you feel more like you again — confident, grounded, and empowered Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means blooming in a new way. So if you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm and show up for yourself in a deeper, more compassionate way — you’re in the right place. Let’s bloom through this, together.

Leave a comment