Menopause Guide: Navigating Changes with Confidence

By Lori Wesmiller | Balance & Bloom 50+

Lori Wesmiller, midlife therapist, thriving in menopause

Let’s take a moment to demystify something half the population will go through, yet many women feel unprepared for: menopause.

Whether you’re feeling off lately, starting to track irregular cycles, or deep in hot flash territory—this post is for you. Menopause is a powerful and natural transition, not a disease or weakness. And the more we understand it, the more we can support our bodies with compassion, confidence, and care.


🌸 What Is Menopause?

Menopause is the biological process that marks the end of your menstrual cycles. It’s officially diagnosed after 12 consecutive months without a period, typically occurring between the ages of 45 and 55.

But it doesn’t happen overnight—there’s a build-up stage known as perimenopause, which can begin years earlier and bring its own set of symptoms.


👩‍🦳 Who Does It Affect?

  • All women assigned female at birth who reach midlife
  • Typically begins between ages 45–55, but can happen earlier or later
  • Early menopause may be triggered by:
    • Surgery (hysterectomy or oophorectomy)
    • Cancer treatments (chemo/radiation)
    • Genetics or autoimmune conditions

And let’s be clear: menopause affects more than just your period. It can impact your entire body and emotional well-being.


🩺 What Are the Symptoms?

According to the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), declining estrogen and hormone shifts can cause a wide range of symptoms, including:

Physical Symptoms:

  • Hot flashes and night sweats
  • Irregular or missed periods
  • Vaginal dryness or discomfort
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Weight gain, especially around the midsection
  • Thinning hair or dry skin
  • Digestive changes (bloating, constipation)

Mental & Emotional Symptoms:

  • Mood swings, irritability
  • Anxiety or depression
  • Brain fog and forgetfulness
  • Low libido
  • Fatigue and lack of motivation

Every woman’s experience is unique—some have few symptoms, while others feel like they’re living in someone else’s body.


🌿 Natural Remedies & Lifestyle Support

Before jumping to medications, many women explore natural approaches to ease their symptoms. These won’t “cure” menopause (it’s a natural stage!), but they can support hormone balance and overall wellness.

✅ Diet & Nutrition

  • Protein supports lean muscle and energy
  • Fiber aids digestion and estrogen detox
  • Healthy fats (avocados, nuts, olive oil) support hormone production
  • Limit sugar, caffeine, and alcohol to reduce inflammation and sleep issues
  • Stay hydrated!

✅ Movement

  • Strength training helps with bone density and metabolism
  • Walking or light cardio improves mood and cardiovascular health
  • Yoga or stretching eases stress and supports pelvic floor health

✅ Sleep & Stress

  • Create a calming bedtime routine
  • Try magnesium, chamomile, or lavender for sleep support
  • Practice mindfulness, journaling, or deep breathing daily

✅ Herbal Support (check with your doctor first):

  • Black cohosh (hot flash support)
  • Maca root (energy & libido)
  • Ashwagandha (stress & cortisol support)
  • Evening primrose oil (hormonal balance)

Check out more natural tips in the Precision Nutrition Menopause Guide.


💊 Medical Interventions That Can Help

If symptoms are severely affecting your quality of life, there is no shame in seeking medical support. Every woman deserves to feel good.

Options Include:

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)

  • Replaces estrogen and/or progesterone
  • Can relieve hot flashes, sleep issues, vaginal dryness, and mood shifts
  • Best when started under age 60 or within 10 years of menopause
  • Discuss risks/benefits with a menopause-informed doctor
    (More from Mayo Clinic)

Non-Hormonal Medications

  • SSRIs (for mood and hot flashes)
  • Vaginal estrogen creams or moisturizers
  • Sleep aids (as needed)

Pelvic Floor Therapy

  • For urinary issues or intimacy discomfort

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone, and You’re Not Broken

Menopause is not an ending—it’s an evolution. It’s a time to tune in, care deeply for yourself, and reconnect with your strength. Whether you choose natural approaches, medical help, or a mix of both—you are in charge of your wellness journey.

Here at Balance & Bloom 50+, I’m walking this path right alongside you. Together, we can thrive through this transition with grace, grit, and maybe even a little sparkle. ✨


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